Officially Unemployed

Saturday, February 3, 2024

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I thought my life would be boring once I entered the employment phase, but I'm enjoying it so far. It feels strange that I no longer have to get ready for work, and now I'm adapting to new habits. I have a lot on my mind about what to do during my unemployment. Now that I'm in Rochester, I've signed up for a gym membership at my alma mater, RIT.

It has always been on my checklist to spend a few weeks in Rochester before going back to Malaysia for good. Call me sentimental, but I love everything about RIT: the brick buildings, the scent, the scenery, and the food. Whenever I walk by the Student Alumni Union (SAU) building, it always brings back memories of being there every weekday at 7 AM for work, and it was also my favorite spot to hang out and do my homework.

A lot has changed since I graduated. They built a new building across from SAU, and they moved Ritchie (the university's mascot) closer to Global Village. Most of the new buildings look modern—made of steel and glass, compared to the older brick structures. Anyway, I still like it. Since I just signed up for a gym membership, I'm going to start tomorrow. I really can't wait to 're-live' all those memories from when I was a student. Here is the list of things I plan to do so I can leave Rochester with a happy heart.

  • Eat Ben & Jerry’s at SAU
  • Buy RIT merchandise
  • Spend time at the Surau
  • Get food from the Pakistani House at Brick City
  • Walk inside the Gosnell building
  • Get Pasta Bake!
  • Hang out at SAU
  • Get fries from Crossroads
  • Take a picture with Ritchie
  • GO TO THE GYM!

I guess that's all for now. I might add some more later

Off to make more memories, write soon!

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My Last Night at 10 Bruen Court

Tuesday, January 30, 2024

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A lot has happened in the past two weeks. I finally submitted my resignation notice, and I must say, it was an incredibly difficult thing to do. It felt like saying goodbye to the dream I've been holding onto. It required a lot of courage, and I managed to go through with it. Now that I am no longer working, I have to leave the States within two months. Before heading back to Malaysia for good, I've decided to spend my last month in the States in Rochester, where my journey started.


With that plan in mind, I had to vacate my home in Albany before February 1st, which is tomorrow. As I'm writing this, I'm sitting at my desk in a small, comfy room in The Spaulding House. I've been here since I moved to Albany, spending five and a half years in this place. However, tonight marks my last night here. I don't think I'll miss this room, but it's bittersweet to actually empty it. This room has witnessed my ups and downs for the past five years. I won't miss the room itself, but I'll miss the freedom of living by myself. With only five days to pack, I didn't think much about it until tonight, and the emotions are becoming real. I won't lie; I shed a tear, just a little bit, though.


As January comes to an end, I am bidding farewell to this place – a place where I spent most of my time in Albany, a place that witnessed my ups and downs, a place I hold dearly.

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Reflections on 2023: A Year in Review

Wednesday, January 3, 2024

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Unrelated: This picture was taken  from my window during snowstorm


Happy New Year!


Looking back at last year's resolutions, it's time to assess what I've accomplished:


1. I managed to read more than in 2022, though I fell short of my goal, completing only six books. Interestingly, four out of the six were thrilling fiction books—turns out, I'm a thriller fan!


2. Tracking my habits turned out to be challenging. Initially, I had a solid system on a spreadsheet, but after a month, I stopped completely. I might need to devise a more effective tracking method.


3. Learning Mandarin was on my list, and I did make some progress. However, I wasn't consistent—I studied only when I felt like it, which I realize needs to change this year.


4. I successfully created a recipe blog, consolidating all my recipes in one place for easier updates. But I didn't keep up with consistent updates, mostly sharing on my TikTok instead. Once I have my own kitchen again, perhaps back in MY, I'll be more motivated to maintain it.


5. I did travel solo, although my destinations were relatively nearby—Woodbury Premium Outlets and New Jersey for some Korean marinated crab cravings.


6. Exercise was an on-and-off affair for me last year. I exercised sporadically when I felt sluggish but didn't establish a consistent routine.


7. My plans to travel with Luqman didn't materialize due to my visa extension process took some times. Hopefully, this year will bring better opportunities.


8. Similarly, a getaway with my parents didn't happen due to the visa situation.


9. Unfortunately, I forgot to write a letter to myself last year, but with significant changes coming up, I'll make sure to do it this year.


10. Volunteering took a back seat last year, but I hope to get involved soon.


11. Managing my finances went well, and I even shared my budget tracking template on Twitter to help others. Here's to achieving financial freedom!


12. No house parties yet, but I collaborated with Kak Iem and hosted parties at her place.


13. Learning to swim didn't happen due to being in the States.


14. I did learn how to edit videos on TikTok and CapCut, although I'm still a beginner.


15. I tried to delve into baking but haven't put it into practice yet. Focaccia remains at the top of my baking list.


16. I managed a few hikes last year at Adirondack, Catskills Mountain, Canyon X, and Yosemite National Park!


17. Despite trying, I struggled with my supplements. I aim to get more Vitamin D naturally this year.


18. I didn't buy a KitchenAid mixer as it seemed wiser to wait until I'm back in Malaysia due to voltage differences between countries. Instead, I made another big purchase—a Oculus!


19. The Grand Canyon remains unvisited, but I did explore Glen Canyon, Canyon X, Horseshoe Bend, Lake Powell, and Yosemite National Park!


20. Unfortunately, a facial spa visit didn't fit into my tight budget last year due to extensive travel.


21. I completed a few courses—Excel from beginner to advanced and a Data Analyst course by Google.


22. My Tajwid proficiency hasn't improved, which I regret. I'm determined to do better this year, InshaAllah.


23. It seems I met my savings goal! However, with anticipated unemployment starting in April, I've increased my savings target slightly for this year.

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Fall Retreat '23 - Catskills Mountain, New York

Saturday, October 28, 2023

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Fall foliage in New York, Oct 2023

Guess what? We made it happen! Our Rochacha family went on a quick trip to the Catskills Mountains to see the colorful leaves of autumn. It was a spontaneous decision that filled us with excitement. We packed our stuff and hit the road. The Catskills Mountains are famous for their beautiful fall colors, and we couldn’t wait to see them.

Our Catskills adventure kicked off with an exciting rental—an Airbnb in Windham, perfectly accommodating our lively crew of 16. The house was a dream, boasting five bedrooms, a playroom for endless entertainment, a spacious kitchen, and, the cherry on top, a hot tub for relaxation.

We jumped right into the fun by starting with cooking. We all decided to make Nasi Kandar, a tasty Malaysian dish, potluck-style. Laughter filled the big kitchen as we each added our own touches to the meal. The delicious smells cooking up got us excited for dinner. Cooking together made us feel closer and eager to enjoy the meal we created.

Our cooking adventure hit a few snags—the stove decided to test our patience, making the chicken take forever to fry. But finally, at 11 PM, dinner was served! The late hour didn't dull our spirits, though. We turned the night into a laugh-filled session of chats and jokes that lasted till the wee hours. The next morning, some of us turned chefs and whipped up a fantastic breakfast—Roti Canai and Nasi Goreng. Energized and ready, we embarked on an epic hike to Kaaterskill Falls, chasing the vibrant fall foliage and chasing waterfalls! As we ventured along the trails, the autumn foliage painted a breathtaking panorama around us. The vivid colors of the changing leaves seemed straight out of a painting, creating a magical atmosphere. The hike to the falls, around 2 hours or so, was an exhilarating challenge. It involved navigating through rocky paths and steep stairways, each step unveiling glimpses of the stunning scenery. The cascading sound of water grew louder as we neared, building anticipation for the magnificent sight ahead. Upon arrival, the awe-inspiring Kaaterskill Falls unfolded before our eyes—a cascade of water plunging gracefully over rocky cliffs, casting a mist that danced in the air. The sheer beauty of the falls against the backdrop of vibrant autumn foliage left us spellbound. Despite the challenging hike, the sight was an absolute reward, etching itself into our memories. The serenity of nature’s masterpiece at Kaaterskill Falls became a highlight of our Catskills getaway, a moment that captured the essence of fall's splendor and the allure of the great outdoors.

Katterskill Falls, Catskill NY 2023
At 3 PM, we boarded the Fall Foliage Train Ride, an hour of serenity amidst breathtaking scenery. The best part? Picking our very own pumpkins for some carving fun! Hunger struck hard after that adventure, leading us back home. Dinner turned into a culinary extravaganza—rack of lamb, lamb BBQ, mashed potatoes, and salad—everyone lending a hand in the kitchen. Post-dinner, the fun continued with karaoke, board games, and Nintendo Switch battles that kept us wide awake until 3 AM! The next morning, a swift coffee fueled our goodbyes as we headed home. It was an absolute blast, and I'm already missing these moments as I think about heading back to Malaysia.

Us, before a hike


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Yosemite has my heart

Saturday, October 7, 2023

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It's like living in a wilderness

Our impromptu decision to explore Yosemite led us to book a last-minute tour via Viator, setting the stage for an adventure that would leave an incredible mark on our memories. The day commenced early, with a 5 AM pick-up at San Francisco's downtown aboard a minibus. While not as plush as our previous Canyon X trip, it efficiently ferried us from San Francisco to Yosemite, a journey spanning roughly 3 hours each way. Traversing the roadways during Labor Day promised delays and traffic, particularly at the park entrance. The winding, meandering roads proved challenging for some, especially those prone to motion sickness. Fortunately, the tour bus made a pit stop before the entrance, accommodating restroom breaks and offering the chance to purchase lunch since options within the park were limited. Arriving around 11 AM, Yosemite unveiled its breathtaking beauty, greeting us with the majestic presence of El Capitan. Upon disembarking, we were granted three hours of freedom to pursue hiking or any other desired activities. Opting to witness the grandeur of Yosemite Falls, we embarked on a short but invigorating hike. One fun fact about Yosemite National Park is that it's home to some of the tallest waterfalls in North America. Yosemite Falls, with a total drop of 2,425 feet (739 meters), is among the world's highest waterfalls. It comprises three sections: Upper Yosemite Fall, Middle Cascades, and Lower Yosemite Fall. The magnificence of the falls, coupled with the serene surroundings, made every step worthwhile. As we ascended the trail, the sounds of nature serenaded our journey, and the allure of Yosemite's natural wonders enveloped us.

Our stroll through Yosemite's trails became an immersive experience in nature's embrace. Towering trees, the gentle rush of nearby streams, and the crisp mountain air created a serene atmosphere. It was a chance to unwind, disconnect, and revel in the simplicity of nature's beauty.



Spending just four hours in Yosemite felt like peeking at a stunning painting through a tiny hole. We caught quick glimpses of Half Dome and wandered a bit in nature, but Yosemite's vast beauty deserved so much more. Those few hours barely touched Yosemite's wonders. It's like only seeing the cover of a great book. I'm determined to come back and spend a few days really exploring Yosemite's wilderness. There's a whole world of nature waiting to be discovered, and I can't wait to dive in and explore it all.


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A quick trip to San Francisco

Monday, October 2, 2023

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 The Golden Gate Bridge


When San Francisco is mentioned, the iconic image of the Golden Gate Bridge immediately springs to mind. Visiting San Francisco has long been on my bucket list before departing the States. My fascination with the city began after watching The Princess Diaries, and it has remained a dream destination ever since.


Originally, our plan was to spend two and a half days exploring SF. However, our plans took an unexpected turn due to a lengthy delay in our flight from Las Vegas, resulting in our arrival in SF at 10 PM. Exhausted from the journey, we chose to stay in for the night. Moreover, we had booked a Yosemite tour for the next morning, necessitating an early 5 AM departure, making rest the most sensible choice. As a result, we only had a single day to experience the city of San Francisco.


We devoted our sole day to exploring popular landmarks. Rising around 8 AM, we got an Uber to go theGolden Gate Bridge. However, upon arrival, thick fog obscured our view of the bridge. Undeterred, we proceeded to our next stop: Lombard Street.


To get to Lombard Street was quite a challenge as we had to ascend a slope of more than 45 degrees. It felt like a mini-hike. Yet, the effort was entirely worthwhile. The vantage point offered an incredible view of the San Francisco horizon. As anticipated, the area was bustling with tourists taking pictures. While some opted to drive along the winding Lombard Street, we chose to leisurely walk down the street. There were even stairs available for pedestrians like us, offering a unique perspective on this iconic spot.

SF skyline from Lombard Street


 Lombard Street 

After spending around 45 minutes there, we boarded a bus headed to Fisherman's Wharf. Navigating through SF was a breeze thanks to the helpful MuniMobile App. Upon arrival, we strolled around the bustling Fisherman's Wharf, exploring various souvenir shops. However, it felt a bit underwhelming with limited activities. Nevertheless, I did get a distant view of Alcatraz, which was quite a sight. Since we missed seeing the Golden Gate Bridge that morning, we decided to give it another shot around noon when the sun was shining. Luckily, fortune favored us, and we were able to witness the breathtaking beauty of the bridge.



Afterward, we headed to Japantown, acclaimed as the largest Japantown in the States. Wandering through the mall, it genuinely felt like stepping into Japan itself. We indulged in the best sushi, with the flavors of sweet shrimp and scallop nigiri lingering in my memory. Following our satisfying meal, we trekked back to our hotel. However, the walking experience in SF wasn't what I anticipated. The heat and the long stretches felt more like a taxing hike. Certain blocks appeared run-down, with a noticeable homeless presence. It became clear that being cautious about where to walk was essential. Our hotel, the Beacon Hotel, was conveniently located close to Powell Street, where the cable cars operate. Though we were eager to experience the iconic cable car ride, our tight schedule didn't allow for a lengthy wait. Understanding the wait time required, we decided it wasn't the best use of our limited time.


Our San Francisco escapade concluded with a glimpse of the iconic cable car before we made our way to San Francisco Airport around 7 PM, ensuring we caught our 9 PM flight back to Albany.


San Francisco offers a plethora of popular landmarks to explore, making it a worthwhile destination for a visit. However, while I appreciated the iconic attractions, it might not be a place I feel compelled to revisit.

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Of Orange Rock and Canyons

Saturday, September 30, 2023

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Our tour group

Even before arriving in the US, I always dreamed of visiting the Grand Canyon National Park, a majestic place that draws travelers from around the world. However, instead of going there specifically, I opted for Antelope Canyon in Page, Arizona. I chose to reserve a day trip with Marvitt Tour via TripAdvisor, despite the higher cost, because it spared me the inconvenience of handling driving, ticket arrangements, and finding parking


Our journey commenced at 4 AM, with our guide, Alex, picking us up at the hotel in a comfortable van suitable for 13 people. Departing from Las Vegas, our route took us through Utah until we finally reached Page, Arizona—a five-hour journey. Choosing Canyon X was deliberate; I aimed to steer clear of crowds. Upon arrival, Alex efficiently managed all our tickets, allowing us to wait comfortably in the car for about 15 minutes until our group was called.




            Managed to capture these rocks on our way to Canyon X

Essentially, to access Canyon X, you need to purchase a ticket and be accompanied by a Navajo tour guide. If you choose to go without a guide, you still require an entrance ticket, and the Navajo people will direct you there. When our group was called, we boarded a van, and our Navajo tour guide drove us to Canyon X. Upon arrival, a lady was waiting for us. To enter the canyon, we had to descend stairs for about 8 minutes. Once inside, the walk became easier. We visited at the end of August, and I'm not kidding, the weather was extreme. It was scorching hot, and the wind wasn't friendly to us at all.


The tour took about an hour, with every moment etching an unforgettable experience. As we descended into the depths of Canyon X, the light played mesmerizing games against the sandstone walls, creating kaleidoscopic patterns that danced with every step. The sheer majesty of the narrow passageways and the towering walls left us in awe.


Our guide, with a keen eye for photography, not only navigated us through the twists and turns but also doubled as a photographer extraordinaire. She knew the best spots for those coveted Instagram-worthy shots, and she skillfully captured moments that we would treasure forever. The natural light filtering through the narrow openings above painted the canyon in hues of red, orange, and gold, casting enchanting shadows that added to the mystique of the place. Despite the searing heat outside, inside the canyon, a cool respite greeted us, offering relief from the relentless sun. The serenity within those walls, the silence that enveloped us, broken only by the occasional whisper of the wind, felt almost otherworldly. The strict no-video policy felt like a blessing in disguise. It compelled us to immerse ourselves fully in the experience, to absorb every detail with our eyes and hearts rather than through the lens of a camera.


As we ascended back to the surface, bidding farewell to Canyon X, the heat of the desert welcomed us once more. But this time, it seemed easier to bear, fueled by the memories of an extraordinary journey into the depths of a natural wonder. The van ride back was filled with chatter and laughter, as each of us shared our favorite moments, our hearts brimming with gratitude for the beauty we had witnessed.





On our way back from the mesmerizing depths of Canyon X, our adventure wasn't quite over yet. We made a couple of pit stops that turned out to be unexpected delights. First up was Horseshoe Bend—an iconic natural wonder that had beckoned us from afar. Exiting the van, we were immediately greeted by the desert's fierce elements. The wind howled relentlessly, carrying grains of sand that felt like tiny darts against our skin. The walk to witness the breathtaking curve of Horseshoe Bend was nothing short of challenging. Each step felt like a battle against the wind, with gusts threatening to knock us off balance. But every struggle was worth it. Arriving at the overlook, the sheer magnificence of Horseshoe Bend stole our breaths away. The Colorado River snaked around the massive canyon in a perfect curve, creating a sight that was both humbling and awe-inspiring. The wind, though unrelenting, couldn't detract from the beauty laid out before us.


After our encounter with Horseshoe Bend, we journeyed onwards to Lake Powell. The landscape changed once again, offering a serene contrast to the ruggedness we had encountered earlier. The vast expanse of the lake, its tranquil waters mirroring the cerulean sky, provided a peaceful interlude to our adventurous day. Before the sun sets, we had to leave Lake Powell. It was hard to say goodbye after such an exciting day with so many cool things to see.

       I am doing okay with height usually but the wind make me scared lah to sit on the edge

On our way back to Las Vegas, a storm surprised us in the desert. Our guide managed it well. We finally got back to Las Vegas at 10 PM. The city lights looked welcoming after our adventure. It was a wild day, with unexpected weather, but it made our trip unforgettable, showing us the wild beauty of the Southwest. Each of us carried memories etched by wind, sand, light, and the profound beauty of the canyons—a day that had ventured beyond our expectations and gifted us with moments that would linger in our hearts forever.


Even though the Grand Canyon remained on my bucket list, I couldn't have been more grateful for choosing the path less traveled, for venturing into the lesser-known but equally spectacular realm of Antelope Canyon's hidden gem, Canyon X.



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Lost in Vegas

Wednesday, September 13, 2023

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Little did I know, Vegas would quickly become one of my favorite cities in the United States. Las Vegas, also known as Sin City, lives up to its reputation with its never-ending casinos and a nightlife that transforms the city into a dazzling, wild spectacle after dark.


Before bidding farewell to the U.S. and returning to Malaysia for good, I decided to treat myself to a West Coast adventure. The plan was simple: visit Las Vegas, marvel at the awe-inspiring Grand Canyon, and explore the iconic city of San Francisco. Las Vegas had a special place on my itinerary because it served as the ideal base for my Grand Canyon excursion, and the sheer number of tour companies offering day trips made it all the more convenient.


Our Vegas adventure spanned three unforgettable days. We flew on an early morning flight from Albany, and let me tell you, when it comes to travel, it's never too early xD. By noon, we had touched down in Vegas. Stepping outside the airport to get an Uber, I couldn't help but be reminded of the scorching heat that hits you like a sledgehammer when you exit KLIA back in Malaysia. The intense desert heat in Vegas made me feel like a roasted chicken in the oven. Although the distance from the airport to the famous Vegas Strip was a mere 10 minutes, the traffic situation could add another 10 minutes to your journey, depending on the time of day. Fortunately, we arrived on a weekday, which spared us some traffic woes. Securing an Uber was a breeze, with the service readily available whenever we needed it.


The Las Vegas Strip or some people called it  "The Strip," is an iconic stretch of road that epitomizes the glitz, glamour, and extravagance of Las Vegas. Lined with some of the world's most renowned resorts, hotels, and casinos, it's a vibrant, neon-lit boulevard that never sleeps. As you stroll down The Strip, you'll be immersed in a world of sensory overload. Gigantic LED screens flash advertisements and entertainers in dazzling costumes beckon you for photos. 


You can technically visit many popular landmarks around the world simply by visiting Vegas. You'll find the Egyptian-themed Luxor with its iconic pyramid and sphinx, as well as the Venetian, which boasts the canals of Venice. The Bellagio features its iconic fountains, Paris Las Vegas has the Eiffel Tower replica, and New York-New York offers a replica of the New York City skyline. Inside these resorts, you can explore their own casinos. The atmosphere within these casinos varies depending on the resort's star rating. My favorite would be The Bellagio's.\



We stayed at The LINQ, which located at the heart of The Strip and the LINQ Promade was just a stone away. The LINQ is a decent hotel. We got a 2 queen beds room at level 15 facing the pool. You literally just need to go out of the building and you could see The Flamingo (another resort), Harrahs and Chaser Palace. There are a lot of restaurants around too. Mind you, The Strip seems pretty small but, you probably need transport to walk from front to end of The Strip. Plus, you don't wanna walk the whole day when it was 106 degree outside. We occupied our first day by walking around and familiarize ourselves with the city. Thank godness, they have monorail: Las Vegas Monorail operating from 7am to 2am. So, we bought a day pass to go here and there. It provides a quick access to some attractions. The LINQ hotel where we stayed are connected to the monorail station which make it even better. We mostly walk around during the day and we easily reached 20K steps within few hours. Those all thanks to got lost in the casinos because we could find the right way out. Sometimes we ended up in a different part of the building.


On our first evening, we enjoyed an upscale dinner at Matteo's Ristorante Italiano, situated within The Venetian. Interestingly, we hadn't originally intended to dine there. Instead, after a captivating 20-minute stroll and being captivated by the neon lights of Caesars Palace, the name of our initially planned restaurant somehow slipped from our minds. So, we ended up at The Venetian and picked a restaurant that caught our attention on the spot. 


Kak Iem took the reins when it came to researching our dining options, and I was perfectly fine with whatever she chose because our taste preferences aligned. We woke up early the next morning to have breakfast, always sticking together. She discovered a breakfast buffet, and we were thrilled about it, so we headed to Paris Las Vegas. However, our excitement turned into disappointment when we found out that the buffet had permanently closed due to Covid. Once again, we had to pick a restaurant that was open, and we settled on Alexa's. The menu choices were decent, but one can't expect much variation from an American breakfast, right?


Our day began with a hearty breakfast, setting the stage for an impromptu adventure along The Strip, stretching from Paris Las Vegas to the Excalibur. Amidst our leisurely stroll, we couldn't resist a visit to the Coca-Cola shop. But, our feet weren't exactly thrilled with our choice of footwear, so we made an unexpected detour to the Skechers store. It's funny howe both wound up with snazzy new sandals, a decision that wasn't anywhere on our radar but proved to be a savior on that scorching day.


Continuing our jaunt towards the MGM Grand, we stumbled upon The Stranger Things Exhibition, organized by Netflix. Personally, I'd only managed to watch four episodes of the series before getting sidetracked, but the exhibition proved to be an unexpected delight. The exhibition has an assortment of souvenirs available for an avid fans. We were there just to snap some pictures. 


Upon leaving the exhibition, fatigue had set in, but we pushed ourselves to walk until we reached Excalibur. Believe me, the heat was relentless, with the sun's rays beating down on us, intensifying the scorching conditions, and the air felt as dry as the Sahara desert. When we finally arrived, we opted for a detour, heading back to the hotel to catch some much-needed rest. At the very least, we had the chance to catch a glimpse of Luxor, complete with its Egyptian theme, featuring a pyramid and the Sphinx. That was certainly enough for us.


That night, we finally get to see a Cirque Du Soleil show. This one is one of the most anticipating things I've been looking for in our trip. We watched 'O' which is held in The Bellagio. We head to The Bellagio early to eat some dinner at LAGO. We did not make a reservation because YOLO. Luckily they accepted us. The Bellagio would be my favorite resort. The architecture and decoration is so luxury. After the show, we went to see the iconic Bellagio Watershow. It's free! We ended our night a tad bit early because we have to wake up super early to catch a tour to Canyon X. 



                        

Man, the photo quality is like we were in the early 2000. After the show!

                                                        Us, in front of the Bellagio 
    





I would say Las Vegas is a must go to place if you want to see a vibrant city lights and I would definitely go again!




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A tranquil retreat

Monday, August 28, 2023

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Nestled in Upstate New York, the Adirondacks stand as a testament to nature's beauty and serenity, a reminder that New York is more than just the city. If you're a nature enthusiast like me ehemmmm, there's a lot to explore. I drove from Albany to Saranac Lake for about 2 hours, booking an Airbnb there. The journey wasn't just a regular drive; it unfolded as a picturesque trip through rolling landscapes. I can only imagine how vibrant and gorgeous it gets during the fall season. I arrived around seven and met my friends from Rochester.


The Airbnb surprised me with its charm. The pictures on the app didn't do justice to its beauty. Tucked amidst whispering pines and nature's embrace, the cabin was a blend of rustic charm and modern comfort. Its quiet location offered us an escape, with the chorus of cicadas replacing the city's noise.


The next day, despite the weather not being on our side, we ventured to Lake George for a boat tour. It rained unexpectedly, and the cold caught us off guard. Fortunately, the rain paused upon our arrival, though the sun remained hidden. The two-hour boat tour included tubing and a lake exploration with our own captain. We marveled at the stunning lake houses; some Americans own these as summer retreats, a true luxury.


I figured, why not take another shot at paddle boarding? There's something about its challenge, the need for balance and a solid core, that really gets me excited. And you know what? It was an absolute blast! Our day was completely taken over by Lake George – the water adventures were non-stop. We even squeezed in a visit to the Olympic Training Center in Lake Placid. Picture this: kids gliding down slopes, skiing with such ease – it was seriously jaw-dropping! The night was pretty slow and relaxing. My friends made fresh pizza and we nyanyi till we drop! As night fell, things took a slower and more relaxed turn. With my buddies whipping up fresh pizza, we laughed and chatted until we couldn't keep our eyes open anymore!


The next morning, we went for a short hike to High Falls Gorge. The waterfall is pretty and we can see White Face Mountain from there. I was so refreshing. Each step you take along the trail shows you a different view of nature's power and beauty. It's a spot that makes you feel small in a big world and reminds you of how incredible our planet is. I'll definitely go back during Fall when leaves turned orange and vibrant! 


For anyone who loves nature and wants a break from the busy city, I recommend visiting The Adirondacks. The Adirondacks are truly special! Picture vast forests, calm lakes, and towering mountains. It's paradise for those who love adventure and nature. Whether you're hiking, paddling, or just enjoying the fresh mountain air, the Adirondacks have a magical effect that makes you feel alive.


My next target hike would be Mount Marcy, one of the highest peak in The Adirondacks. 

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Live In Moderation

Wednesday, May 3, 2023

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Unrelated image. Sunset I captured from my room today

 


I had a chat with Luqman the other day,

“I don’t think it’s wrong to have big dreams. I want to have a luxury car, a big house, etc.” I said. 

“However, Islam has taught us to live in moderation. You definitely need a car—a functional one, but a luxurious one? “I don’t believe so.” He was opposed.

“What if I don’t want to live a moderate lifestyle?” “What if I want more than I have?” I argued.

“Perhaps you should be more thankful for what you have.” “As humans, we will never be satisfied with what we have,” he debated.

The talk continued. I was obstinate and clung to my opinions.

Luqman said “Maybe you should do some reflection on what you just said.”.  

I was too tired to argue any further because it was already 1 a.m. Yes, the time difference is difficult. However, it protects Luqman from my “stupid” attack.

Then we ended the call.

The next day, I did what he told me. Yes, I did some research, mainly because I wanted to counter his argument.

Then I led to an article about how Islam values moderation.

Essentially, we are advised to avoid extremes in everything—worship, belonging, prosperity, and so on.

But, when I think about it, having a luxury car or an enormous house isn’t necessarily a bad thing. What’s wrong is that once you get those luxuries, you tend to change and become ungrateful and self-centered.

Having a fortune might be frightening.

It is crucial in life to maintain the proper amount of equilibrium between one’s requirements and desires.

The thought of desiring more can be suffocating. It’s going to be stressful. You will never be satisfied with what you have. That is undeniably correct.

After all of that contemplation, I came to an agreement. It all comes down to how happy you are with your life, regardless of how much money you have or how much property you possess.

All I want is peace of mind and happiness in my life, which means I need to start counting my blessings.

p/s: I still want to own a car and a home. Perhaps not a Mercedes or an Audi. Perhaps a Toyota would suffice to transport me. And probably not a big 10-bedroom mansion. Perhaps a four-bedroom house is adequate for us two.

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My Last Eid In The US

Thursday, April 27, 2023

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Relaxing dekat backyard Kak Iem sambil gossip. JK

Eid fell on Friday (April 21st) this year in the States, which meant that we celebrated Eid a day earlier than in Malaysia. Thank God I decided to use some of my PTO for EID. Eid this year was a bit different as it would be my last Eid abroad, so I wanted to create as many moments as possible. This was also my first Eid as a wife, although I didn’t get to celebrate with Luqman. Nonetheless, I still enjoyed my Eid this year. I went to Rochester to celebrate with my Rochacha family there.

Kak Iem and I had been planning for Eid a month earlier, and we decided to make Lemang from scratch. That was the highlight of my Eid this year. I had never made lemang before, let alone in the US. We bought bamboo from Etsy, and the price was a bit high. A shoutout to Kak Iem’s husband for helping us look after the lemang while we were busy cooking rendang and daging dendeng!

On the first day of Eid, we ate together at noon and then headed over to another open house. It was a good time to see familiar faces. Aunty Sally had an open house on the second day of Raya, and Kak Iem and I decided to host another open house on the third day of Eid. I was swamped with cooking, eating, and a photoshoot in between. One thing I love about celebrating Eid abroad is that you don’t get unnecessary questions about work, kids, etc. It’s more about enjoying each other’s company and good food. I am going to miss celebrating Eid abroad.


Hasil titik peluh 4 jam tunggu. Lemang besar gajah

Our lemang nampak hangus tapi dekat dalam just nice 

Happy face sebab boleh makan lemang this year

With my Rochacha Fam :D

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