Fall Retreat '23 - Catskills Mountain, New York

Saturday, October 28, 2023

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Fall foliage in New York, Oct 2023Guess what? We made it happen! Our Rochacha family went on a quick trip to the Catskills Mountains to see the colorful leaves of autumn. It was a spontaneous decision that filled us with excitement. We packed our stuff and hit the road. The Catskills Mountains are famous for their beautiful fall colors, and we couldn’t wait to see them.Our Catskills adventure kicked...
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Yosemite has my heart

Saturday, October 7, 2023

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It's like living in a wildernessOur impromptu decision to explore Yosemite led us to book a last-minute tour via Viator, setting the stage for an adventure that would leave an incredible mark on our memories. The day commenced early, with a 5 AM pick-up at San Francisco's downtown aboard a minibus. While not as plush as our previous Canyon X trip, it efficiently ferried us from San Francisco to Yosemite,...
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A quick trip to San Francisco

Monday, October 2, 2023

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 The Golden Gate BridgeWhen San Francisco is mentioned, the iconic image of the Golden Gate Bridge immediately springs to mind. Visiting San Francisco has long been on my bucket list before departing the States. My fascination with the city began after watching The Princess Diaries, and it has remained a dream destination ever since.Originally, our plan was to spend two and a half days exploring...
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Of Orange Rock and Canyons

Saturday, September 30, 2023

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Our tour groupEven before arriving in the US, I always dreamed of visiting the Grand Canyon National Park, a majestic place that draws travelers from around the world. However, instead of going there specifically, I opted for Antelope Canyon in Page, Arizona. I chose to reserve a day trip with Marvitt Tour via TripAdvisor, despite the higher cost, because it spared me the inconvenience of handling...
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Lost in Vegas

Wednesday, September 13, 2023

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Little did I know, Vegas would quickly become one of my favorite cities in the United States. Las Vegas, also known as Sin City, lives up to its reputation with its never-ending casinos and a nightlife that transforms the city into a dazzling, wild spectacle after dark.Before bidding farewell to the U.S. and returning to Malaysia for good, I decided to treat myself to a West Coast adventure. The plan...
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A tranquil retreat

Monday, August 28, 2023

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Nestled in Upstate New York, the Adirondacks stand as a testament to nature's beauty and serenity, a reminder that New York is more than just the city. If you're a nature enthusiast like me ehemmmm, there's a lot to explore. I drove from Albany to Saranac Lake for about 2 hours, booking an Airbnb there. The journey wasn't just a regular drive; it unfolded as a picturesque trip through rolling landscapes....
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Live In Moderation

Wednesday, May 3, 2023

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Unrelated image. Sunset I captured from my room today I had a chat with Luqman the other day,“I don’t think it’s wrong to have big dreams. I want to have a luxury car, a big house, etc.” I said. “However, Islam has taught us to live in moderation. You definitely need a car—a functional one, but a luxurious one? “I don’t believe so.” He was opposed.“What if I don’t want to live a moderate...
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My Last Eid In The US

Thursday, April 27, 2023

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Relaxing dekat backyard Kak Iem sambil gossip. JKEid fell on Friday (April 21st) this year in the States, which meant that we celebrated Eid a day earlier than in Malaysia. Thank God I decided to use some of my PTO for EID. Eid this year was a bit different as it would be my last Eid abroad, so I wanted to create as many moments as possible. This was also my first Eid as a wife, although I didn’t...
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I went home after 3 years!

Monday, April 17, 2023

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 This is another long-overdue post. I went home after 3 years! It felt surreal since everyone I saw last time grown up and a lot of thing has changed since then. I went home for a month and a half. I got married (which I will update in the next post).I missed a lot of exciting events and returned home to new people in my family, as my brother recently married. Anyway, the trip to Malaysia was...
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"23" for 2023

Sunday, January 29, 2023

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Perhaps it is too late to write this down because January will soon be over. Last year was fantastic, but I did not maximize my potential, particularly in terms of personal development. So there you have it. I’ve been spending some time actually making lists that are doable while also pushing me to be the best version of myself.


1. Read more – I’m not a bookworm, I do read but not the actual book. Maybe because my reading materials are more factual, and I had a hard time to digest. I would like to change my taste in books and we will see how it goes. So, this year, my goal is to read 7 books. Yes, lucky number seven. 

2. Track my habit: Did you know that it takes 21 days to actually make habits stick? I’ve been working on my habit tracker on a Google Sheet (which I did myself), and so far I am nowhere near close to actually reaching my habit goals. I believe having a to do everyday would be a good combination to my habit tracker. My goal is to stick to that particular habit for at least 25 days in a month.

3. Learn Mandarin. I love learning new languages and I have a list of languages I would love to learn. But, I always learn  basic phrases and stop. I used to take Mandarin class back in college and I stopped once I reached intermediate level.  I was having a hard time juggling lab work , research, and language class. I still remember some but this time I really want to focus and learn new vocab. 

4. Start a recipe blog. I still have my recipe blog, which I created in 2018. Somehow, things happened, and I lost interest in cooking. I want to get my passion back and continue to share, or at least have a record of what I’ve cooked. I want to post at least 23 recipes this year.

5. Solo vacations as a birthday gift to myself. I have a rough plan to go to the West Coast and DC this year. 

6. Exercise more. Ideally, I need to walk at least 30 minutes a day. On top of that, spend 15 minutes stretching in the morning and afternoon. 

7. Travel with Luqman: We didn’t have the opportunity to go on a honeymoon after our wedding; this is something I’ve been discussing with Luqman since we got married. I do not have the exact plan, but we will figure this out once we have enough budget to do so. Maybe somewhere in October or November.

8. A getaway with my parents—I would love to bring my parents somewhere. Maybe to Penang like we used to go when I was a kid. I want to relive those moments and just be a kid for a couple days. or maybe somewhere further.

9. Write a letter to my future self. I have always had this plan in my mind since 2 years ago. I think this year would be a great time to start.

10. Volunteering. I’ve been searching for a good place to volunteer. I do not have the opportunity to do so yet because I do not have the resources to start.

11. Track my monthly expenses. I need to be better with my money management so I can reach my savings goal this year.

12. Host a party at our house; I miss having a board game night. Both Luqman and I love board games so much. A board game night party has been on my mind a lot for the past few weeks.

13. Learn how to swim—yeap, I can’t really swim. I love water sports a lot, but now I have a limitation on how far I can go since I can’t swim—just yet.

14. Learn to edit video. A part of me loves doing this kind of thing, but I am not an expert. I would like to know more about editing videos to make them more pleasing.

15. Learn baking! I want to make focaccia bread from scratch!

16. Go on a hike! Maybe I can drag Luqman with me.

17. Get my supplements! I have a vitamin D deficiency. I have to remind myself to take it every day.

18. Buy a KitchenAid mixer—I’ve been eyeing this for years now.

19. Visit a National Park in the US – Grand Canyon specifically!

20. Get a facial aka spa day. It’s time to focus more on my skincare.

21. Finish courses in Coursera and Udemy – I have multiple courses I enrolled but have not yet finished. My goal is to finish them by March, after which I can add new stuff to learn.

22. Learn Tajweed so I can recite Quran better.  

23. Save at least $__k by the end of the year.

It does sound like a lot. However, I really want to make sure I achieved at least 90% from the list.


Toodles!

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Lock In For Life 💍

Monday, January 23, 2023

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It has been 2 months since the wedding. I’m still in disbelief, wondering how so many months of planning, anticipation, and excitement boiled down to the happiest and most beautiful hours of my life that felt like minutes, and then boom!!, it’s over.A day before, I just found out that Luqman has to prepare the dowry, or “mas kahwin” physically. You know, in this era where technology plays...
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