My Last Eid In The US

Thursday, April 27, 2023

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Relaxing dekat backyard Kak Iem sambil gossip. JK

Eid fell on Friday (April 21st) this year in the States, which meant that we celebrated Eid a day earlier than in Malaysia. Thank God I decided to use some of my PTO for EID. Eid this year was a bit different as it would be my last Eid abroad, so I wanted to create as many moments as possible. This was also my first Eid as a wife, although I didn’t get to celebrate with Luqman. Nonetheless, I still enjoyed my Eid this year. I went to Rochester to celebrate with my Rochacha family there.

Kak Iem and I had been planning for Eid a month earlier, and we decided to make Lemang from scratch. That was the highlight of my Eid this year. I had never made lemang before, let alone in the US. We bought bamboo from Etsy, and the price was a bit high. A shoutout to Kak Iem’s husband for helping us look after the lemang while we were busy cooking rendang and daging dendeng!

On the first day of Eid, we ate together at noon and then headed over to another open house. It was a good time to see familiar faces. Aunty Sally had an open house on the second day of Raya, and Kak Iem and I decided to host another open house on the third day of Eid. I was swamped with cooking, eating, and a photoshoot in between. One thing I love about celebrating Eid abroad is that you don’t get unnecessary questions about work, kids, etc. It’s more about enjoying each other’s company and good food. I am going to miss celebrating Eid abroad.


Hasil titik peluh 4 jam tunggu. Lemang besar gajah

Our lemang nampak hangus tapi dekat dalam just nice 

Happy face sebab boleh makan lemang this year

With my Rochacha Fam :D

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I went home after 3 years!

Monday, April 17, 2023

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This is another long-overdue post. I went home after 3 years! It felt surreal since everyone I saw last time grown up and a lot of thing has changed since then. I went home for a month and a half. I got married (which I will update in the next post).

I missed a lot of exciting events and returned home to new people in my family, as my brother recently married. Anyway, the trip to Malaysia was satisfying and fascinating. And it was my first flight with Japan Airlines. I had a layover in Haneda. Who doesn’t like Japan, after all? Japan captured my heart. I had a 9-hour layover that felt insignificant. I got to try premium sushi for only $28! This type of sushi is never offered in the United States, at least not at that price. I’m not gonna lie: as a fan of kawaii merch, I splurged on gifts at duty-free shops. That concludes my brief visit to Haneda Airport.

I arrived in Malaysia on November 21st. I almost cried when the flight attendant announced, “To Malaysians, welcome home.” It really hit the softest spot in my heart. Luqman picked me up at the airport, and we went to TBS to pick up my sister. That was her first time meeting Luqman. Well, not really. They had already met, but I wasn’t there. We went to Luqman’s home and dropped our luggage there. We had lunch at Kenny Hills. The smoked duck pasta was to die for! That was our first date in Malaysia!

I at last got to view my Nikah outfit the following day. I basically had a virtual meeting with the designer and created the design myself. I also added French lace to the basic baju kurung. The fitting went well, but they still need to make some repairs because it was larger than I had anticipated. It was fixed in a single day. Aida deserves praise for making things easier for me. I was able to pick up my dress before I left for Besut after she fixed it in a single day.

Also, one of the most dreaded things was getting my visa stamped. I had an early morning interview. I arrived a little bit later than I planned because of the traffic in KL. The interview went well, but I forgot to bring my passport photo. Thank God I don’t have to set up another interview session. They told me to drop off my passport photo at Aramark HQ. I got my passport five days later.

I went home after 3 days in KL. I finally got to see and decorate my new room! I’m so glad to be home, and I didn’t have to be an adult for weeks. Like, I could wake up in the morning and the breakfast is ready, I don’t have to decide what I want to have for dinner etc. Overall, it was something I missed the most.

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